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Spanish Reflexive Verbs: Rules, Examples & Tips

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    Spanish reflexive verbs play a significant role in your conversations. This type of verb is particularly important when describing daily routines and other personal actions. So, you must understand how and when to use reflexive verbs in Spanish. 

    In this guide, you’ll learn: 

    I’ll provide examples and resources to help you further your understanding of this Spanish grammar topic. 

    Take Note: According to the data collected by El Instituto de Verbología, almost 30% of the verbs we use daily are pronominal verbs (including reflexives). 

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    What Are Reflexive Verbs in Spanish?

    Reflexive verbs in Spanish are verbs that express a reflexive action. Simply, they refer to activities that the subject does upon oneself. 

    graphic explaining what reflexive verbs in spanish are

    From a Spanish grammar point of view, with a reflexive verb, the subject and the object (the receiver of the action) are the same person. For example: 

    [Reflexive pronoun] + [verb conjugated]

    Yo me cepillo los dientes.
    I brush my teeth.

    Ella se ducha con agua fría.
    She showers with cold water.

    te afeitas todos los días.
    You shave every day.

    As you can see in the sentences above, the subjects are doing the actions upon themselves. You’re shaving, and the person you’re doing this to is yourself. 

    Take Note: Reflexive verbs in Spanish can be translated into English as ‘myself’, ‘yourself’, ‘himself’, ‘herself’, etc. However, it’s important to note that the translation of reflexive verbs in English may not always include reflexive pronouns. 

    A reflexive verb in Spanish requires an appropriate reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os) that matches the subject of the sentence. 

    Ellos se despiertan temprano.
    They wake up early.

    Nosotros nos lavamos las manos.
    We wash our hands.

    In their non-conjugated form (infinitives), reflexive verbs end with the pronoun se, such as bañarse, vestirse, and dormirse.

    Non reflexive verbs in Spanish vs reflexive verbs

    graphic showing the difference between reflexive and non-reflexive verbs in spanish

    As established before, reflexive verbs in Spanish describe actions that the subject performs upon oneself. However, if the action is directed towards someone else, you must use non-reflexive verbs. 

    Check these sentences:

    Reflexive actionNon-reflexive action
    Yo me cepillo el cabello.
    I brush my hair. 
    Yo le cepillo el cabello a la bebé.
    I brush the baby’s hair. 
    Connie se lavó las manos.
    Connie washed her hands. 
    Connie las lavó (las cortinas).
    Connie washed them (the curtains).

    When the action is directed to something or someone else, non-reflexive verbs in Spanish are combined with indirect and direct object pronouns

    Since the action falls back into different people, mixing these types of verbs can lead to misunderstandings. So, make sure you understand the difference between non-reflexive and reflexive verbs

    Take Note: Reflexive verbs in Spanish are transitive verbs. In other words, they need an object to be complete. Some non-reflexive verbs are also transitive, while others don’t require an object to have full meaning –yo trabajo. 

    Examples of Spanish Reflexive Verbs

    graphic with a list of the most common reflexive verbs in spanish

    Spanish reflexive verbs are usually associated with daily routines, hygiene, and grooming activities. Here are some examples of reflexive verbs: 

    • Abrocharse: To button / To tie / To fasten
    • Bañarse: To shower / To bath
    • Cambiarse: To get changed
    • Cepillarse: To brush
    • Lavarse: To wash
    • Peinarse: To do your hair
    • Ponerse: To put on
    • Quitarse: To take off
    • Sentarse: To sit
    • Vestirse: To get dressed / To dress

    Here are some sentences using these verbs: 

    No te abrochaste la camisa.
    You didn’t button your shirt.

    ¿Ya os lavasteis las manos?
    Did you guys already wash your hands?

    Espérame, me voy a cambiar.
    Wait, I am going to change.

    ¿Dónde nos podemos lavar las manos?
    Where can we wash our hands?

    Los niños no se han puesto la pijama.
    The kids have not put on their pajamas.

    In this list of most common reflexive verbs, you can check other verbs to add to your vocabulary. 

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    Do you Conjugate Reflexive Verbs?

    Like any other Spanish verb, a reflexive verb must be conjugated. To do so, you must identify the conjugation group (-AR, -ER, -IR) and apply the appropriate endings. On top of following the standard conjugation rules, you must also use reflexive pronouns. 

    Here is table with the present tense conjugation of cepillarse, vestirse, and ponerse.

    -AR Verbs-ER Verbs-IR Verbs
    YoMe cepilloMe pongoMe visto
    Te cepillasTe ponesTe vistes
    Él / Ella / UstedSe cepillaSe poneSe viste
    NosotrosNos cepillamosNos ponemosNos vestimos
    VosotrosOs cepilláisOs ponéisOs vestís
    Ellos / Ellas / UstedesSe cepillanSe ponenSe visten

    Putting the Spanish reflexive pronouns aside, the conjugation of reflexive verbs follows the same pattern as their non-reflexive forms. In other words, these verbs can also be irregular or have stem changes (like ponerse and vestirse). 

    graphic showing how to conjugate reflexive verbs in spanish

    Reflexive Pronouns in Spanish

    In their infinitive form, reflexive verbs end with ‘se’ (bañarse, vestirse). When it comes to conjugating, this ‘se’ ending can be very confusing for Spanish learners. However, ‘se’ indicates that you’re dealing with a reflexive verb and it will need to be replaced by the proper reflexive pronoun.

    Unlike personal pronouns, reflexive pronouns cannot be omitted because the sentence would lose its reflexive meaning.

    chart showing how to place reflexive pronouns in spanish

    Also, keep in mind that the pronoun’s position can vary depending on the tense or mood. So, make sure you understand how to conjugate reflexive verbs in Spanish

    Key Points: Rules for Spanish Reflexive Verbs

    If you’re learning Spanish, you cannot overlook reflexive verbs. In fact, there are many actions you can’t express without them. Here are some key points and rules you should keep in mind: 

    • A reflexive verb in Spanish indicates that someone performs an action upon oneself
      • The subject and object of the action are the same entity. 
    • These verbs work with reflexive pronouns. Unlike Spanish subject pronouns, these pronouns can never be omitted. 
    • Reflexive verbs in Spanish are non-reflexive if the action is directed towards someone or something else. 
    • These verbs are related to daily routines and personal care activities. 
    • Like other verbs, reflexives must be conjugated and can have stem changes or irregularities.  
    • The position of the reflexive pronoun in Spanish varies depending on the tense or mood. 

    Reflexive Verbs Spanish-Related Resources

    Now that you know what a reflexive verb is in Spanish, some additional resources can help you master this topic.. First, understand how transitive verbs work. This will allow you to get familiar with verbs that take an object, such as reflexives and non-reflexives

    As mentioned above, if the action is done to a different object, you’ll need different object pronouns. So, make sure you get familiar with direct and indirect objects. If you’re still confused about the conjugation rules you must use, you should check this guide

    In fact, here are some examples you can use as guidelines: 

    On a final note, verbs using reflexive pronouns are called pronominals. Many pronominal verbs describe reflexive actions, but this may not always be the case. 

    Download the Free Reflexive Verbs PDF

    Reflexive verbs can be a challenging subject for Spanish beginners to understand. If you found this guide useful, I’ve created a free PDF of the graphics, key points and cheat sheets. Since knowing how to use a verb in reflexive form is critical to becoming fluent, you can download a copy and revisit this topic whenever you need a refresher or are ready to level up your Spanish skills.

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